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March 9, 2015 | Blog |  9 Comments

After Page One: The Journey

By Dana Schwartz

A guest post to encourage, motivate and inspire…

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Starting Again

In the months leading up to my daughter’s birth, I wrote my first novel. That makes it sound so easy, doesn’t it? But it was as much of a labor as the one I was about to have. My belly bulged as I walked down the sidewalk clutching my freshly printed manuscript to my chest. I had three weeks until my due date. Plenty of time to read it. Or so I thought. Two nights later I went into labor and by morning I was a new mother.

In the months that followed, I thought about my novel on occasion, still wrapped in the brown bag from the copy shop, but my baby’s cries and my exhaustion blotted it out. The manuscript resided in a variety of places: on top of my desk, on the floor of my closet, packed in boxes during several moves, and finally, locked in a safe.

That’s right. A safe. And that’s where it remained for five years.

Becoming a mother consumed me. I fell into a hole of sorts and when I emerged I didn’t recognize myself. Was I still a writer? Had I ever been? The novel gathered dust in the safe because I was afraid to read it. If it was terrible, then perhaps I wasn’t a writer after all. Better to keep it safe in the safe. Better to fantasize about its potential.

More time passed, and then one day I got an email about a writer’s conference. As I read about the speakers and panels, I felt a fluttering in my chest. For a brief moment, I worried over the logistics of childcare. Then signed up. Sometimes, you have to leap first and figure out the details later.

The conference felt like a welcoming back. I knew not a single person there, but I loved being surrounded by writers, some published, many not, all of us clutching our navy blue folders, going in and out of lecture halls, talking about books, our dreams.

A switch had been flipped. I started to remember what it felt like, for the first time in years, to be a writer.

A few days later I sat down with that thick ream of paper, my long forgotten manuscript, and read it. Some parts were not as bad as I imagined, some were worse. But the seed of my story, the theme that had moved me years ago, remained.

I would be lying if I said I didn’t feel the sting of disappointment that it wasn’t better. But after a moment, the feeling dispersed, and I laughed. Relieved. Because in a way, the hardest part was over: starting.

Soon after I began revising–and I’m still at it more than a year later–I’ve thrown out more words than I’ve written, and some days it’s harder to continue than others, but I keep on because that’s what writers do, and that’s what I am.

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Join our After Page One series. We’re looking for 300 to 500-word guest posts that motivate, inspire, and encourage other mama-writers, and we’d love to feature YOUR thoughts about getting started, getting back to a writing project, integrating writing with motherhood, reading, or having a positive attitude. 

Tagged: Personal Narratives

9 replies on “After Page One: The Journey”

Lindseysays:
March 9, 2015 at 6:33 am

I love this. Thanks for reminding us that what we are endures, even through a period of being blotted out, and also for honoring how disorienting new motherhood can be. xox

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Danasays:
March 9, 2015 at 6:46 am

Thank you so much Lindsey. It took such a leap of faith to read those old words, but so glad I did.

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Justine Uhlenbrocksays:
March 9, 2015 at 7:41 am

I’m headed to my first writing conference in May, and I will carry your words with me and try to think of it as “a welcoming back.” Thanks for sharing.

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Danasays:
March 9, 2015 at 8:06 am

So glad you’re going, and welcome back indeed. Can’t wait to hear how it goes.

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Staceysays:
March 9, 2015 at 6:27 pm

So glad you have found your way back to writing again. I love reading your words!

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Ninasays:
March 10, 2015 at 7:56 pm

This is so excellent and I love that last line so much.

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Tamarasays:
March 11, 2015 at 1:42 pm

Yes, you are.
Sometimes I worry that everyone else is a “real” writer or a “real” photographer and I’m not.
I really need to surround myself and embrace myself in a conference or workshop.

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Danasays:
March 11, 2015 at 2:18 pm

Thank you so much Stacey and Nina! Tamara, you are absolutely a “real” writer, whatever that means, ha, but yes, go to a conference and wear a name tag and sit in on panels. It can be so great to just breathe it all in.

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Jocelynsays:
March 22, 2015 at 5:46 pm

I really like that you remind us writing is a long-term process, not always something to crank out in a few days and a few words. Sometimes letting it sit–for whatever reason–lets us see the whole thing anew. So glad you’re back at it!

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